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Monday, November 03, 2008

The Perfect Man for Me

Many of you know that I work full time about an hour away from our home. This 2 hour daily round trip can get very tiring for me, but God has certainly blessed me with Jasper, a 1998 Ford Escort with 154k+ miles. I bought it in 2005 for $1900 and to date, I have only put brakes, tires, a muffler thingie and routine maintenance into the car. Granted, it has more dents, dings and rust than most demolition derby cars but it gets me where I need to go. That little background brings me to tonight's topic.

While I am driving Jasper to/from work and working away during the day, my hubby is back in our little town, running around visiting church folks, organizing ministries, grocery shopping, driving county school buses on a part time basis, preparing for Sunday morning's message, going over his notes for the Wednesday night Apologetic study (very interesting!), creating a children's sermon to give to the kids on Sunday morning, trying to get a hot water heater installed in the church (don't ask!), fixing a hole in our kitchen wall from the plumbing incident, buying cranberry apple juice for me, practicing for his special song on Sunday, typing up the bulletin, choosing the songs for worship and making sure the musicians (me and the piano player) have copies, buying the milk and breakfast items for the sunday school goers, and on and on the list goes - but those are just his 'ministry' duties.

When I arrived home tonight, I was tired, had a tummy ache (surprise, surprise), and was just downright feeling blah. I walked into the kitchen and I realized God has blessed me with the most wonderful, caring man. Ribs were boiling in a large pot, and real potatoes were in the crockpot waiting to be mashed. Not only does he help out with the cooking, he helps with the laundry, empties the dishwasher when I start it on my way out the door, gets me juice when I decide right before bedtime that I am thirsty and I don't feel like going downstairs to get it, and rubs my back and feet as if it is his privilege to care for me. The list definitely does not stop there, but I think you get the idea. Thank you God for the perfect man for me!
This is Jay in his Halloween costume. I will post more pics of the Chili supper at church where we all dressed up, but I thought I would include this one in this particular post.

Friday, April 11, 2008

Relaxation

My honey wanted me to relax for an evening. He got a themed suite at the Wildwood Inn. As you can see it is as Western theme. It was really neat. You might remember a post from my birthday a year ago. He chose the Nascar room that time.

The old phone.



Yes, the old pumps dispensed the water.


The toilet was weird...you pulled this handle on the chain to flush it. And it was way loud too.




The old fashioned bar.



I love you Jay!

Friday, March 21, 2008

Boys and their Toys

Jay is such a "gadget" type of guy. He is really into the NCAA games so he set up the living room as his own personal theatre. The little TV has CBS's Arkansas v. Indiana game, and projected up on the living room wall is the Louisville v. Boise State game (which is streaming from the internet via his laptop sitting down by my quilt ladder.) Plus I am watching a game on my laptop via the internet. Technically we could have a fourth game streaming from Jay's computer but I think that might be a little overboard :o) He has the sound from the TV and the laptop wired into the surround sound so he can switch between sound on the games also. Yeah, he is slightly goofy!

Monday, February 11, 2008

Engagement Anniversary

After working a 13 1/2 hour work day, driving around in the parking lot in the snow trying to find a spot, once I reached my door, this is what I found. Yes, it was 2 years ago today that Jay "popped the question."



Huge card. He was sure to tell me that this wasn't my Valetine's gift. He is such a sweetie.

Tuesday, February 05, 2008

90th Birthday Party

Jay's Grandpa Stafford at his 90th birthday party.

Jay's niece, Constance or CJ.

Both Grandpa Stafford and this lady had their birthdays on the same day, 90 years ago.

Me holding Maverick. Such cute eyes.

Nieces Kristen and CJ.


Sadly, today we learned that Jay's Grandma on the other side has passed away. Jay's uncle, Ray is actually in Brazil and the funeral will be held once he arrives back stateside. He was down there on a missions trip. It is possible that Jay's brother, Aaron, will not make it back before the funeral. Thankfully, she lived a full life and has now gone to be with Jesus at the age of 92.

Wednesday, January 30, 2008

Things I love about You

  • Your eyes
  • Your smile
  • How you mop the floor cause I hate doing it
  • How klutzy you are sometimes (this one always makes me grin)
  • How you plan trips
  • How you surprise me
  • The roses you send to me
  • That you care about our financial security
  • Your honesty
  • How you apologize so quickly (I am learning to do this)
  • How you say Thank You
  • How you always open the door for me
  • That you try to make me happy
  • That you take me to quilt shops
  • Your romantic side
  • Your willingness to help out at church
  • How smart you are about important things (i.e. the Bible)
  • That you love to travel
  • Your sense of humor
  • How you tell others about Jesus
  • That you are my cheerleader
  • Your love for me and for God
  • That you let me quilt all the time

Love you JAY!

Tuesday, October 09, 2007

My first sweater of the season!

Jay is so sweet. He drove out of the way to Macy's and bought me a pink Tommy sweater. He knew I wasn't having a good day today. He rarely buys me clothes so I was very surprised. I am such a lucky girl! I wonder who named this article of clothing because it sounds terrible if you think about it.

Monday, October 08, 2007

One never knows.....

...when you might wish you had your camera. Today was just such a day. Jay had a colonoscopy today. They knocked him out for a little over an hour and then brought me into the post-op/recovery room to see him. He was awake...sort of.
My day started at 4 a.m. with my cell phone alarm clock. That's a doozy! I don't even know if Jay remembers me leaving. I arrived at work around 5 a.m. My boss is off this week on a business trip to New York and I am in charge of everything and I have certain deadlines I have to make etc. I worked from 5 to 1 p.m. and then rushed home and picked up Jay and drove him to the office.
When I first saw him in the recovery room he asked for a COKE to drink. He never drinks Coke unless we are in a restaurant and they can make a cherry coke for him. That was my first clue. Then he asked me twice (seconds apart) what time it was. He was acting quite hilariously. We had decided to go to Texas Roadhouse after the test was done since he hasn't had any solid food since Saturday night. When the nurse walked him out to the car I wasn't too sure about the whole restaurant thing as he didn't look too steady on his feet. The nurse warns me as she is shutting the door to our car, that if we do go to a restaurant to eat, not to let him journey to the facilities as he was likely to fall asleep in there.
Nonetheless I start driving towards Texas Roadhouse. He pulls out his cell phone and starts going through numbers so I ask curiously what he is doing. He advises me that he is going to call his "bookies." I told him to put his cell phone away and then I called his brother and let him know that I wasn't too sure about my husband's state of mind. He starts coming around more at the restaurant and he orders his food and gulps it down and then he started getting drowsy again. As we are walking toward our apartment, he starts asking me weird questions about how did he get his clothes on and did I put his shoes on. I sent him to bed where he currently is residing. Just another day in the life of me.